There is a better way to do ministry than the one that I have spent most of my life dedicated to. Don Williams' book resonates with my soul in more ways than I care to discuss. However, as I have been recovering from many things over the past year (including church), I have found that there is a healthy way to do ministry. Jesus is the example of course. Here are few paragraphs on the subject from Williams' that you might find interesting.
"Jesus wasn't addicted to his ministry or relationships. Unlike today's pastoral workaholics, he was free to leave a successful campaign behind and move on to other cities. Since he was motivated by God's call rather than by the needs around him, he was free to withdraw from the masses and find rest and refreshment without guilt."
"Since Jesus loved people from wholeness, he had no addictively attaching relationships. Unlike many pastors today, he didn't need to collect important people around him in order to shore up his fragile ego. Being free from people, Jesus was free for people."
"Jesus not only freely loves us, he sets us free to love ourselves and each other. As we receive his mercy and become merciful toward ourselves, we will be able to extend it to our neighbors. Such love throws Christians into each others arms for care and comfort and enables us to bear the good news of Jesus' love into the world. Since he doesn't condemn us, we won't condemn ourselves or each other. Since he loves his enemies, we will love our enemies. Since he forgives us, we will forgive ourselves and each other. Since he comes to seek and save the lost, we will go to seek and save the lost. The great commission will be fulfilled throughout the whole global village by a Church in love with God and its neighbors."
--Don Williams, Jesus and Addiction