Step Seven: "We humbly asked God to remove all our shortcomings".
"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9).
I can't think of too much harder than becoming willing to give up the very things that I have used my entire life to cope with life's difficulties. "God, would you take away my comfort. Please remove my support and my coping mechanisms. Exercise out of me the very things that I substitute for you." Step Seven is a prayer for change. It is to beg God to do whatever is necessary in order to transform me through and through. Step Seven requires great courage and a willingness to embrace great pain.
"Step Seven goes beyond confession and asks God to change us....When we repent, we turn from our sins. At the same time, we turn to God. We turn from self-will to his will" (Don Williams, Jesus and Addiction).
This kind of prayer requires courage and but it also takes a great deal of trust in God. He does not strip us naked of our unhealthy shortcomings just to leave us barren and alone in some far off desert. He takes away the garbage that we have put our trust in for perhaps our entire lives so that he can replace it with something better--Himself!
"God loves us. God accepts us. We are his. We are no longer worthless and alone, bouncing around in a meaningless universe" (Don Williams, Jesus and Addiction).